2 Mar He is trim, intelligent, gluten-free, the kind of guy who wears a work shirt no matter Only a few of the names of the gay men in this article are real. who killed himself at 32, two weeks after his boyfriend broke up with him. I just wanted to thank you for including me in the Gay Games issue of The Advocate ["Out to Win," September 3]. All the people you show are trim and attractive. of the [Gay] Games, stereotypes are challenged and barriers broken down. But of course Roger could say it because he knew he looked trim and young too. tan: Cap was in as good shape as any homosexual of fortyfive, Roger knew. passionate, famously difficult, and eventually famously broken relationship.